I have a feeling that we probably always sabotage ourselves to some degree in different areas as we go through life. Would you say that’s true? Surely as we develop and reach higher levels of success there are always new challenges and we sometimes fall back into our negative patterns as that is part of the contrast of the ups and downs.

I think people have an idea (me included) that when they really make it everything is rosy all the time! In reality I know that even when you make it really big (like you for example) you most likely still have to consciously prevent yourself sabotaging your efforts now and then?

Tell us what it’s like for you Randy. :)

I came to this realization that while I am not at where I say I want to be…(I want to be earning $100K a month, live in a Good Class Bungalow in the eastern side of sgp costing 10Mil or so, drive a white merc SLK open top convertible) but at the same time, the irony of it is that deep in me, in my subconscious mind, I feel I am exactly where I want to be.

When my best friend asked me, “When you made your millions, how would you lead your life differently?” I suddenly realized tat I wouldnt really lead my life very differently. Maybe I would live in a bigger house or drive a bigger car.. but I really wouldn’t lead my life very differently from what I am doing now.. I would perhaps just travel more often and more freely…

I would love to read what you have to say about that because I do want to break through this.. sometimes i feel as if I talk about success all the time but I am not willing to pay the price… I am not willing to get it at the expense of not being able to spend quality time with my kids, at the expense of not being able to tour the world freely (even though I agree if you dun have money, you can’t really tour many places anyway), at the expense of not being able to cook for my family, at the expense of feeling stress and strain month after month especially when month end closing is near…