That’s nice of you to give encouragement Bones…

I think it easier to get a sacred circle than go out and sell…Maybe I’ll give out information to people once they qualify themselves as worthy…That will change everything…

Really examine how many non-nurturing people you have in your life right now- and then ask what am I willing to do about this? I’ve been reading a lot of Abraham-Hicks books lately where they talk about getting into the “Vortex” which is really just aligning yourself with who-you-really-are. Once you do that, consistency, daily- then there will be no place in your life for the nay-sayers.

The belief that you have to entertain these people just because they are family is nonsense. I “divorced” myself from my father and his wife 2 years ago because of the toxicity they bring. Once I got clear about who I am and what I want, there is no room for those who don’t fit the pattern. When I do see my father- maybe once or twice a year- he is -positively- noticably different towards me.

So the lesson is to be very clear and committed to who-you-are and what you really want in business, in life, in love.

I must really say that this is one issue I have really being wanting to hear discussed. The importance of the sacred circle cannot be overemphasized. Every single person who comes in our lives or stays in our lives or passes through our lives has an effect on us no matter what we think and this effect is either negative or positive. It cannot be neutral.

Just like having a lot of ammunition in preparation for a fierce battle, It is important to be prepared for things like this and know what to do when the situation arises.

Everything around us is energy including ourselves. We only grow and become better people when positive energy meets positive energy. It’s that simple like arithmetic. Negative energy and positive energy cancel out and yields no result. Sometimes the negative can even be more than the positive.

I am no exception to the reality of this discussion as I joined an MLM company about 4 months ago. I have noticed that my relationship with my previously close friends has begun to hang on a thin thread. I am no longer interested in the things that they are interested in and it gets worse by the day.

One of the things I learned from one of the greatest men in history, Ralph Waldo Emerson in his “Self Reliance” Essay is to Insist on yourself, trust the instinct in you that tells you the right way to go. Shun recommendation of so called friends. Be yourself. Live your life not for a spectacle but for itself and when push comes to shove, the will eventually like you because you were not a trap for their liking or disliking but you held on to your way and scorned their disappropation.

I hope this goes a long way to help us all.

b.k from Nigeria.